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Some people blame everything on circumstances:
'Nobody could succeed with the financial problems that I have (the husband, the boss, the parents,and all sorts of various reasons).

What they are trying to say is that they are powerless to change their lives. Of course, if you believe that you are weak, you make yourself so. People need to discover that their actions can make a difference.

The darkest day for English writer Thomas Carlyle began when a maid mistakenly used the only copy of his manuscript to start a fire. Carlyle sank into a deep despair. Then gradually he force himself to rewrite 'The French Revolution' word by word and sentence by sentence. The novel becomes a classic till today.